People love in different ways and people feel loved in different ways. Here are the five languages of love:
1. Words of affirmation: people feel loved when they are encouraged and appreciated expressed through words (speech or writing). What you can do:
Write a thank-you card about something he/her did
Send a cute text like "You are amazing. Never forget that. Love you!"
Say "I love you."
Other cute sayings or text: - Thanks for taking care of me. - You look great today! - You are my favorite blessing. - Hope your busy day is going well. I'm thinking of you♡ - I love being your girlfriend/boyfriend.
2. Acts of service: do things/help to do things for him/her; What you can do:
Wash the dishes together (one can wash and the other can dry the dishes)
Make breakfast and enjoy it together
Do the laundry (once in a while ; ))
3. Physical touch: use body language and touch to express love (non-verbal = not through words) What you can do:
Give bear hugs
Kiss on the head/cheek/lips
Hold hands when shopping or walking together
4. Quality time: focused conversations that is not interrupted; 1-on-1 time is a must What you can do:
Take walks together (no phones!)
Vacation time with just the two of you
Create special moments together
5. Receiving gifts: give thoughtful gifts What you can do:
Express happiness & gratitude when you receive the gift
Give gifts with a special meaning (remember things he/she likes)
Not sure about your love language? Try out the quiz! (Also make your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband do it!)
Once you know how others think what love is, you can try to give "love" to them and they will feel loved♡ How great is that =D We can discuss more about this in class! Just Ask me!
↘ Which is your love language? What do you wish others will do with or for you? Comment below!↙
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