Don't talk about things you think are boring too. Think about the things you are enthusiastic about!!
Step 1 Choose something you love, something you want, or something that matters to you.
Customize the item you choose based on the context and who you are talking to.
If it is a business networking event for a company you are interested in working for, talk about something you loved about your work or your next career goal.
If you are at a meet up with supporters of your local animal shelter, talk about a non-professional passion like leisure activities or music you enjoy listening to.
Homework: Make a list of 5-10 things you love, want, or care about. This will help you to know what to talk about in class
Don't choose topics that are red flags like politics, religion, recent news that may upset people, etc.
Step 2 Elaborate on that topic using the simple framework of time: past, present, and future.
If you are at a social event and you love to travel:
Past: I set a goal to visit 3 countries a year, since 2010 and I have been to 20 countries so far!
Present: These days I have been busy with a new project at work and haven’t had the chance to plan a trip in months.
Future: For my next trip, I am thinking about Northern Europe. Does anyone have any recommendations?
If you are in a more professional gathering, focus on work (choose something about your work that you love):
Past: I've been in the marketing industry for over five years, primarily working in account and project management roles. I enjoy leading and motivating a project team.
Present: I most recently worked as a senior PM for a large tech company managing large marketing campaigns and overseeing other project managers.
Past: And now I'm looking to expand my experience across different industries, particularly fintech. Is there anyone who works in the industry?
This way, you can move the conversation smoothly, talk about something you enjoy, and engage others with the same interest. People will think you are interesting with a passion for travel.
An introduction like this helps increase interaction and make meaningful new connections!
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