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[Topic] Dating and Relationships

This is a popular topic that people like to talk about. I'm sure you have heard people say: "So I’m dating this guy…”. Does it mean the person is having a "casual date"(not boyfriend or girlfriend yet) or in a "serious relationship"(boyfriend and girlfriend)?


What does it mean?

There’s a difference between "dating someone" and just "dating".

  • “Dating” means you’re going on dates. You are actively going out (for dinner/coffee/drinks), meeting people, and spending time with them (1-on-1). - Seeing more than 1 person

  • “Dating someone” means you’re seeing somebody specific, with purpose and on a regular basis. - Only seeing 1 person


Here are more words and phrases you can use to discuss relationships:

  • Ask (somebody) out: to ask someone if they’d like to go on a date with you.

  • Go out with (somebody): means that you’ve been meeting with that person on repeated occasions, you’re getting to know each other.

  • Hit on (somebody): to act in a way that shows you’re attracted to the other person. It may include other forms of flirting like getting a bit more physical than normal - jokingly punching her/him - touching hands - continuous hugging - giving the other person sexy, provocative looks.

  • Hook up with (somebody): to have sex with someone. However, for some people, it might mean anywhere from making out (kissing) to sex.

  • Lead (somebody) on: to cause someone to think that you are interested in them when you are not (either because you want the attention or to get something)

  • Make out with (somebody): to heavily kiss. Can also include touching and petting.

  • Cheat on (somebody): To have sex with a person who’s not your boyfriend or girlfriend; wife or husband.


Dating apps have been quite popular in recent years. However, not everyone is comfortable with meeting new people online. I think it is just how you use "dating apps". I have met a lot of interesting people and having good chats over coffee.


Do you think dating apps are suitable for finding friends or a serious relationship? Tell me in the comments below!

Now, let's practice listening!


Listen to the BBC Talk on Dating Apps: How our brains react

  1. What is the talk about?

  2. What do you think about dating apps? Do you think it is a good way to meet people?

  3. How do you think society feels about dating apps?

  4. What do you look for when you are looking for a serious relationship? (personality/looks/interests)

  5. In the UK, approximately how many marriages start with the couple meeting online? Is it: One in three / One in four / One in five

  6. What do you think about how dating apps are in Taiwan? Do you know people who have had serious relationships from meeting online?

  7. What words are new to you? Make your own sentence.


↘Comment below "how do you meet new people?". Tag a friend↙

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